I nostri nonni, i nostri genitori e tutte quelle persone who have gone before us have tried to teach education. Some have succeeded, others did not. But what is education? It 's a bit trite to say, but times have changed on this front. My grandfather until the last day of his life he opened the car door to pick up my grandmother. Today there is still some man who does it? If they do it is because it is some special occasion, I was reading about some stupid paper that if a man opens the door to a woman means that the woman or the car is new, but I think it makes you smile the truth. I do not pretend that a man opens the door for me, are very good at aprirmela alone and at least I'm sure not having anything left in the half. Also at the table
things have changed once we sat down only after the "cook" had been accommodated and began to eat only after the start of the most important member of the family. Today we sit around the table when it is still not machine and do not get up until the end of the meal. I do not know what I like and what not, maybe something in between. Some things are definitely exaggerated, for example: a man should always give priority to a woman but when you enter a new place to go him to verify the safety of the place, here, that makes me a bit 'funny. If entering a new place is a group of women only what do you do? The first puts at risk his life? I do not know certain rules I have never met. What I know is which is not interrupt adults when they are talking (though I wonder when I am an adult and when I will have the right not to be interrupted), which in a restaurant are served before women and older, who must be on the bus yield to pregnant women and elderly people who do not know that you give "her" and that is always asking "please".
I grew up with this basic education, I know enough to behave properly in any place, or at least I think, in fact, my mom makes me believe. My mom tells me often, perhaps every day, that grandparents have brought up very well and she did the same with me and that I must do the same with my children. The example of education at all, in my family, my uncle was Alfonso. Uncle Alfonso has never been married (according to legend, had beautiful girlfriends here and there, one in Egypt) and has always lived alone, in spite of this every time I went to the table set with silver cutlery, obviously wants to put as good manners, he respected every social norm, and this has always been a mystery to me, peeled and ate the fruit with the cutlery, all types of fruit.
Today we are all a bit 'more flexible. I do not think there is still someone under 70, able to peel the fruit with a knife and fork, if yes, please come to demonstrate.
Despite the increased flexibility we live quite well here in recent years, some a few times a bit 'more education would not hurt. We try to find a happy medium.
things have changed once we sat down only after the "cook" had been accommodated and began to eat only after the start of the most important member of the family. Today we sit around the table when it is still not machine and do not get up until the end of the meal. I do not know what I like and what not, maybe something in between. Some things are definitely exaggerated, for example: a man should always give priority to a woman but when you enter a new place to go him to verify the safety of the place, here, that makes me a bit 'funny. If entering a new place is a group of women only what do you do? The first puts at risk his life? I do not know certain rules I have never met. What I know is which is not interrupt adults when they are talking (though I wonder when I am an adult and when I will have the right not to be interrupted), which in a restaurant are served before women and older, who must be on the bus yield to pregnant women and elderly people who do not know that you give "her" and that is always asking "please".
I grew up with this basic education, I know enough to behave properly in any place, or at least I think, in fact, my mom makes me believe. My mom tells me often, perhaps every day, that grandparents have brought up very well and she did the same with me and that I must do the same with my children. The example of education at all, in my family, my uncle was Alfonso. Uncle Alfonso has never been married (according to legend, had beautiful girlfriends here and there, one in Egypt) and has always lived alone, in spite of this every time I went to the table set with silver cutlery, obviously wants to put as good manners, he respected every social norm, and this has always been a mystery to me, peeled and ate the fruit with the cutlery, all types of fruit.
Today we are all a bit 'more flexible. I do not think there is still someone under 70, able to peel the fruit with a knife and fork, if yes, please come to demonstrate.
Despite the increased flexibility we live quite well here in recent years, some a few times a bit 'more education would not hurt. We try to find a happy medium.
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